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Joined: 2021-04-22

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	Of course. And don’t feel (ever) that you owe me a response... In forum Your Story	3 years ago
	The other thing I wanted to explain further is perspective. ... In forum Your Story	3 years ago
	First - CHOICE. From everything you've shared your wife ... In forum Your Story	3 years ago
	No worries, Doc. I get it and I didn't think otherwise. ... In forum Your Story	3 years ago
	The one part I don't like may not be valid since I don't kno... In forum Your Story	3 years ago
	I have mixed feelings about this. The best way to explain is... In forum Your Story	3 years ago
	Hmmm, yeah,mine would be too. That's not to say that he's i... In forum Why Did This Happen, What I Need to Know & Boundaries	3 years ago
	There isn't a right and wrong here. There are few people wh... In forum Why Did This Happen, What I Need to Know & Boundaries	3 years ago
	I haven't been successful yet, but I will keep trying. In forum Reconciliation & Rebuilding Our Marriage	3 years ago
	It felt many times like "Faking it until you make it" until ... In forum Why Did This Happen, What I Need to Know & Boundaries	3 years ago
	This is where I do miss our old forum :(. There were a few ... In forum Reconciliation & Rebuilding Our Marriage	3 years ago
	@doc-nietzsche Oh, I remember those feelings well (the cruel... In forum Why Did This Happen, What I Need to Know & Boundaries	3 years ago
	I understand exactly where you are coming from. But I will ... In forum Why Did This Happen, What I Need to Know & Boundaries	3 years ago
	Unfortunately, running won't get her anywhere but more lost.... In forum Why Did This Happen, What I Need to Know & Boundaries	3 years ago
	Skelling - I think I am missing a piece here - why is it ... In forum Why Did This Happen, What I Need to Know & Boundaries	3 years ago
	It is amazing how dense they can be at times. I recently ha... In forum Why Did This Happen, What I Need to Know & Boundaries	3 years ago
	She is welcome to reach out to me here or I can give you my ... In forum Reconciliation & Rebuilding Our Marriage	3 years ago
	I have a lot to say on this one. Give me a day or so and I'... In forum Reconciliation & Rebuilding Our Marriage	3 years ago
	That "Can't we be friends?" BS makes me so mad.... Such emot... In forum Your Story	3 years ago
	Thank you for sharing, Doc. Your wife (and you) have a lot ... In forum Your Story	4 years ago

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Testing

I thought this was closed.

By Exhausted, 1 year ago
RE: Forum Closing

Yes, thank you very much for all of your effort and sup...

By Doc Nietzsche, 3 years ago
RE: Forum Closing

I’m glad I found this before it closed. Thanks for tryi...

By Exhausted, 3 years ago
RE: I Fell On Black Days.....

Okay. Thanks for keeping this going as long as you did....

By Doc Nietzsche, 3 years ago
Forum Closing

Hey everyone - The renewal for this forum is coming u...

By ThriveNotSurvive, 3 years ago
RE: I Fell On Black Days.....

Doc - I doubt anything is going to feel right for a w...

By ThriveNotSurvive, 3 years ago
RE: I Fell On Black Days.....

Thank you to @skelling, @exhausted, and @redhairedyoda ...

By Doc Nietzsche, 3 years ago
RE: I Fell On Black Days.....

This pretty much sums up my fears from the beginning.

By Exhausted, 3 years ago
RE: I Fell On Black Days.....

Sorry, everyone, I made some changes to the site a litt...

By ThriveNotSurvive, 3 years ago

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