1) If you are someone interested in receiving support in the aftermath of an affair and having trouble registering on this site, please feel free to email me HERE. I have had to turn off auto-registrations due to the overwhelming number of spammers creating fake accounts.
2) The new forum (since www.Affairhealing.com closed) has been up and running for around 9 months now. I am wondering if it makes sense to keep it going when the renewals come up. Unfortunately, I do not have the time to put into marketing the forum so it ranks well in searches when people are looking for help/resources. As more of our old forum members move past needing the same level of support/interaction, they are rarely posting. And since we aren't attracting new people, the site is stagnant. At this point the only people I think I am helping are spammers looking for a place to register fake accounts.
I REALLY want to use my experiences to help others who find themselves on this painful path, but I fear that my lack of time to blog and market the site is dooming it to not be the resource I had hoped it to be. Feel free to post your thoughts about whether I should try to keep it up for another year or reach out to me via direct message.
Affair Healing Support Forum
We have created a community to help support those who are experiencing the aftermath of an affair. We encourage all those affected - the Betrayed Spouse (BS), the Wayward Spouse (WS), and the Other Person (OP) to interact in the community here. It is our belief that these interactions, when conducted with honesty tempered with compassion can be illuminating and healing for all. However, in any situation where emotions run this high, policies of acceptable behavior need to be outlined. Find them here.Topics: 1 | Posts: 1
Share your story here! Other members can refer to it when seeking to understand your situation better, in an effort to help answer your posts.
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Discussions related to having suspicion regarding a partner's unfaithfulness.
Discussions regarding the recent revelations of a partner's unfaithfulness.
Discussions regarding the confusion and the choices that must be considered in the aftermath of an affair.
Discussions regarding many of the key topics that weigh heavily on Betrayed Spouses' minds after the revelation of a partner's affair. Why did this happen? What do I need to know to make decisions about my future? How can I create healthy boundaries?
Discussion regarding all elements of reconciliation - whether it is the most appropriate choice for you, what to look for, resources, and suggestions from those who have already walked this path, or are currently.
Discussions surrounding the choice to seek a separation or divorce.
Discussion regarding the experiences and perspectives of the unfaithful spouse. Betrayed Spouses (BS) and Affair Partners (AP) - if you choose to respond, remember that the intent of this forum is to provide a safe space for healing for all parties affected by an affair. Any post that is seen as intentionally inflammatory, cruel, or rude will be removed. Hard truths can be shared in considerate and respectful language. If you don't think you can, then do not post.
Discussion around the confusion about what to do next many Wayward Spouses face.
Discussion regarding how the Wayward Spouse can help heal the marriage and support their spouse through the reconciliation and rebuilding process.
Discussions regarding the experiences and perspectives of an Affair Partner (AP). Note to the Affair Partner - You may receive replies from ex-Wayward Spouses or Betrayed Spouses that will feel harsh. Please remember that the purpose of your sharing here is to get honest replies and to understand this situation from perspectives other than your own. That may not always be easy to read. Note to Betrayed Spouses (BS) and Wayward Spouses (WS) - If you choose to respond to a post, please remember that the purpose of this forum is to facilitate healing in all those affected by an affair. Hard truths can be stated with respect and compassion. If you do not think you can post with respect and compassion, then don't. Any posts seen as crossing the line into cruelty or bashing will be removed and if more than one is found, the user will be deleted.
Discussion topics for Affair Partners struggling with ending an affair or walking away after an affair has been revealed.