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Hi Everyone!

A couple of things I wanted to bring to your attention. If I recognize your name/handle from our old forum, I bump you up a level or two the first chance I get, That way your posts go through less "moderation". If you decided to change your name on this site, but are from our old one - send me a PM. Once I know, I will do the same for you.

Which brings me to the second point - we have private messaging! Both individual and GROUP chatting now! There are some other cool features I've activated - crazy emoticons, the ability to hit the "subscribe" button under a post to be alerted whenever there is a new post to it, etc. Play around with it and let me know what works - and if something doesn't.

I plan also to add a "TMI/Sensitive Subject Matter" area that only those who have made at least 10 posts can access. I know sometimes people need to ask questions about sex and other sensitive topics, and this will be the appropriate place for it. Blind Cheetah/CowsAreWatching made that suggestion - and I thought it was a great one.

I look forward to seeing a lively discourse here soon. - Thrive

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We have created a community to help support those who are experiencing the aftermath of an affair. We encourage all those affected - the Betrayed Spouse (BS), the Wayward Spouse (WS), and the Other Person (OP) to interact in the community here. It is our belief that these interactions, when conducted with honesty tempered with compassion can be illuminating and healing for all. However, in any situation where emotions run this high, policies of acceptable behavior need to be outlined. Find them here.

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The Betrayed Spouse (BS)
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Your Story

Share your story here! Other members can refer to it when seeking to understand your situation better, in an effort to help answer your posts.

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I Suspect an Affair

Discussions related to having suspicion regarding a partner's unfaithfulness.

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I Just Found Out

Discussions regarding the recent revelations of a partner's unfaithfulness.

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What Happens Next?

Discussions regarding the confusion and the choices that must be considered in the aftermath of an affair.

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Why Did This Happen, What I Need to Know & Boundaries

Discussions regarding many of the key topics that weigh heavily on Betrayed Spouses' minds after the revelation of a partner's affair. Why did this happen? What do I need to know to make decisions about my future? How can I create healthy boundaries?

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Reconciliation & Rebuilding Our Marriage

Discussion regarding all elements of reconciliation - whether it is the most appropriate choice for you, what to look for, resources, and suggestions from those who have already walked this path, or are currently.

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Separation and Divorce

Discussions surrounding the choice to seek a separation or divorce.

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Survival Strategies

Discussions relating to methods, tools, and concepts that may help members move through the pain and anguish to healing and ultimately, to allow them to thrive once again.

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The Wayward Spouse (WS)
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I Cheated. Now What?

Discussion regarding the experiences and perspectives of the unfaithful spouse. Betrayed Spouses (BS) and Affair Partners (AP) - if you choose to respond, remember that the intent of this forum is to provide a safe space for healing for all parties affected by an affair. Any post that is seen as intentionally inflammatory, cruel, or rude will be removed. Hard truths can be shared in considerate and respectful language. If you don't think you can, then do not post.

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Confused About What To Do Next

Discussion around the confusion about what to do next many Wayward Spouses face.

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How Can I Help My Spouse Heal?

Discussion regarding how the Wayward Spouse can help heal the marriage and support their spouse through the reconciliation and rebuilding process.

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Testing Stuff

This is my area to test things like word filters, bear with me.

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The Affair Partner (AP) /Other Person (OP)
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Where Do I Go From Here?

Discussions regarding the experiences and perspectives of an Affair Partner (AP). Note to the Affair Partner - You may receive replies from ex-Wayward Spouses or Betrayed Spouses that will feel harsh. Please remember that the purpose of your sharing here is to get honest replies and to understand this situation from perspectives other than your own. That may not always be easy to read. Note to Betrayed Spouses (BS) and Wayward Spouses (WS) - If you choose to respond to a post, please remember that the purpose of this forum is to facilitate healing in all those affected by an affair. Hard truths can be stated with respect and compassion. If you do not think you can post with respect and compassion, then don't. Any posts seen as crossing the line into cruelty or bashing will be removed and if more than one is found, the user will be deleted.

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Moving On

Discussion topics for Affair Partners struggling with ending an affair or walking away after an affair has been revealed.

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