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Hi Everyone!

Two things:

1) If you are someone interested in receiving support in the aftermath of an affair and having trouble registering on this site, please feel free to email me HERE.  I have had to turn off auto-registrations due to the overwhelming number of spammers creating fake accounts.

2) The new forum (since closed) has been up and running for around 9 months now. I am wondering if it makes sense to keep it going when the renewals come up. Unfortunately, I do not have the time to put into marketing the forum so it ranks well in searches when people are looking for help/resources. As more of our old forum members move past needing the same level of support/interaction, they are rarely posting. And since we aren't attracting new people, the site is stagnant. At this point the only people I think I am helping are spammers looking for a place to register fake accounts.

I REALLY want to use my experiences to help others who find themselves on this painful path, but I fear that my lack of time to blog and market the site is dooming it to not be the resource I had hoped it to be. Feel free to post your thoughts about whether I should try to keep it up for another year or reach out to me via direct message.


The Affair Partner (AP) /Other Person (OP)

Discussions related to the experiences and perspectives of the Affair Partner in the aftermath of an affair revelation.
The Affair Partner (AP) /Other Person (OP)

Where Do I Go From Here?

Discussions regarding the experiences and perspectives of an Affair Partner (AP). Note to the Affair Partner - You may receive replies from ex-Wayward Spouses or Betrayed Spouses that will feel harsh. Please remember that the purpose of your sharing here is to get honest replies and to understand this situation from perspectives other than your own. That may not always be easy to read. Note to Betrayed Spouses (BS) and Wayward Spouses (WS) - If you choose to respond to a post, please remember that the purpose of this forum is to facilitate healing in all those affected by an affair. Hard truths can be stated with respect and compassion. If you do not think you can post with respect and compassion, then don't. Any posts seen as crossing the line into cruelty or bashing will be removed and if more than one is found, the user will be deleted.


Moving On

Discussion topics for Affair Partners struggling with ending an affair or walking away after an affair has been revealed.